It is inevitable that we will come across a concept that our children find particularly challenging when homeschooling, but it is important that we do not let these moments feel inadequate. Remember, every child learns differently, and with persistence, patience, and creativity, you can help them overcome challenging concepts.

This month, I wanted to give you an example and some tips of what to do when you find your child struggling with a concept.

Teaching Davyd Subtraction with Regrouping

This is my best example of when I had the most trouble teaching a concept. For Davyd, regular subtraction was just a little confusing because he wanted to add. He wanted to zoom through his work and didn’t bother to look at the symbols, so he kept trying to add. Eventually, we had to learn how to regroup, and the concept of borrowing from one number frustrated him. When you think about it, this is throwing a lot of problem-solving at children all at once, and it can be very overwhelming.

Showing him how to do it wasn’t working, so we had to break down the concept into smaller parts and ensure he followed each step. I also needed to use highlighters on the problems so he knew where to focus his attention. Finally, it just clicked for him! I probably screamed with excitement. Once he was comfortable doing this type of problem, it was time to reduce the amount of support he needed to complete it.

Understand the Child’s Perspective

It’s common for children, especially those who are eager to complete their work quickly, to miss important details like the subtraction sign. This can lead to confusion and frustration, especially when the concept becomes more complex, like with regrouping. Recognize that these struggles can be overwhelming. They’re tackling multiple layers of problem-solving at once, which can be a lot to process.

Break Down the Concept into Smaller Steps

When the traditional method of teaching doesn’t work, breaking the concept down into smaller, more manageable steps can make a big difference. Focus on teaching each step separately, ensuring the child fully understands each part before moving on to the next.

Use Manipulatives and Visuals

Manipulatives like counters or blocks can help make abstract concepts more concrete. For example, using blocks to show borrowing in subtraction helps children visualize what it means to take from one group to add to another. Highlighting or color-coding parts of a problem can draw attention to specific details, helping the child focus on the correct steps and symbols.

Try Different Teaching Approaches

If one approach isn’t working, be ready to try a new one. For example, if the child doesn’t understand subtraction on paper, try using a number line, drawing pictures, or playing a subtraction game. Persistence is key. Let the child know that you are committed to finding a method that works for them.

Celebrate Small Wins

Celebrating when the child finally grasps a concept, as you did by expressing excitement, can be motivating and affirming for both the child and the parent.

Be Patient and Take Breaks

Remember to breathe and remain patient. Not every concept will come easily, and that’s okay. Taking breaks and not pressuring yourself or the child is important.

Use it as a Learning Opportunity

When things don’t go as planned, see it as an opportunity to better understand your child’s learning style. Reflect on what methods seem to resonate with them and adjust your approach accordingly.

Homeschooling can come with its fair share of challenges, especially when it comes to teaching difficult concepts. However, these moments don’t have to feel like setbacks. Instead, they can be opportunities for growth—for both you and your child. By staying patient, persistent, and creative, you can find a way to make challenging concepts understandable and even enjoyable. Remember, every child learns at their own pace and in their own way. Through strategies like breaking down complex tasks, using visuals, trying different approaches, and celebrating small wins, you can help them build confidence and resilience. Embrace the process, and trust that with time, effort, and the right support, your child will overcome any learning hurdle they face.

 

Math manipulatives I love: https://amzn.to/3XK8FKX

Dry-erase number line I like to use: https://amzn.to/3XpxjPP