Everyone has been there. In line at a crowded grocery store. An exhausted mom. A persistent toddler. The gleaming, shiny perfect candy bar. The toddler starts with whining, then some tears and before you have a chance to flip through the latest issue of US weekly that toddler is in full meltdown mode. He’s on the floor, there is kicking, screaming, yelling, the whole nine yards. The mom is embarrassed, tired, and just wants her kids to shut the heck up. Can you blame her? She grabs the candy bar and desperately hands it over. The crying stops and all is right in the world. The toddler climbs back into the cart with a head full of new knowledge. Tantrum = candy bar. What do you think is going to happen next time they go grocery shopping?
- The function of me dialing my phone is talk to someone and get some attention.
- The function of me going on facebook is escape doing my work.
- The function of me pressing ‘decline’ is to avoid talking to someone annoying.
- The function of me running over my iphone with my car is to crack my screen into a million pieces. Hmm… maybe a consequence but you get my point.
- attention/tangible: Behavior is functioning get positive or negative attention. Or behavior is functioning to gain access to a tangible item.
- escape: Behavior is functioning to get out of something (work, socialization, environment…).
- sensory: Behavior gives some type of internal and natural reinforcement to the individual (ie: the child would do this if they were alone).
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